LongHair
'I would be up the creek without a paddle if I hadn’t trusted my own instincts!'
You wouldn't be 'spiritual' enough if you trusted your own instincts and would never have gotten invited anywhere.
BUT;
KUDOs to you and others and,,, hats off to you for following your gut instincts and looking after 'you' first!!!! And not listening to peer pressure from others in the Borg and their 'toxic' influence.